Get out your playing cards, focus on the person you wish to connect with, shuffle the cards and pull two cards. The first one represents YOUR heart. The 2nd card is the other person’s heart. Look at the SUITS only. For tarot you can simply take out the Majors and use just the Minors.
Here’s your guide:
Clubs/Wands = act, create, move, progress, travel, defend, start, push, wait, expand, rest, motivate, complete
Hearts/Cups = love, feel, connect, embrace, share, commit, give, offer, forgive, dream, pray, wish, desire
Diamonds/Pentacles = earn, have, own, build, secure, purchase, acquire, exchange, increase, spend, receive, plan, prepare, attain
Spades/Swords = block, inhibit, limit, freeze, lose, remove, interfere, destruct, fear, regret, lie, deny, grieve
Are your hearts in sync?
Here’s an example. Let’s say Bill and Ann are arguing over whether the time is right to sell their home and downsize since their children have left home. Bill receives a Diamonds/Pentacles and Ann receives a Clubs/Wands card. Bill wants to stay put because he earned the money to build the home and it has provided everything they need. He’s concerned about what they will receive for the home in this market and he thinks it’s a more stable base to prepare for the future. He is patient and persistent in getting his point across. Ann is ready for change and progress and she is ready to take action. She wants to travel and have the freedom to move around. She thinks they should expand their horizons. She’s feeling frustrated and impatient.